This is for Me and All of You.

Assaulted Female in Carrboro/Chapel Hill

One of my best friends lost one of his cats last month. Some of you may say it is not much to lose a cat.

But, people hurt. For so many reasons. Physically. Mentally. Both.

None of us should be shamed. None of us should feel guilty. I am trying. All of us are trying, some harder than others. Some getting better results. But, I do believe we are all hurting in so many ways that we can't describe them.

I have lost myself in so many ways. Many of you have, too. It doesn't matter how big or little the lose, the hurt, feeling of hurt affects you -- they are your feelings. Do not let anyone tell you that your feelings aren't valid.

Tonight, I light a little candle. For myself. For my close friend (BFF for life). Good people deserve good things. Even if it takes a while.

My love to all of you.